When husband and wife get along well, it means love and happiness; when they don’t get along well, it means torture and pain. Therefore, when choosing your partner, be sure to look at these 3 key factors to determine whether the other person is suitable for you.
1. Money
The bustling world is all for profit; the bustling world is all for profit. . ——"Historical Records·Biographies of Huozhi"
The relationship between husband and wife is also a kind of interpersonal relationship with interests. Why do women always like to keep spare tires? This is a gene formed by the evolutionary strategy of organisms.
From a biological perspective, in the relationship between the sexes, the costs and risks women bear are huge (pregnancy, breastfeeding, and the corresponding time and energy required), so they will give priority to those that can provide corresponding value. Male as companion.
Therefore, the first reason a girl is not interested in you is money. What if you don’t have money to love her again?
p>2. Sex
People often say - quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed.
I used to be too young to understand what it meant, but now I realize that it means - after a quarrel, you have sex once in the evening, and the couple will make up.
Many conflicts between couples can be apologized with [sex]. Sex can be used to alleviate the emotions and corresponding conflicts between two people.
When thinking about it this way, "one day for a couple and a hundred days of kindness" gradually becomes abnormal...
It is a good way for the couple to adjust their conflicts.
3. Love
Love (Love) refers to liking to a very deep level, and then artificially The feelings given.
If there is no love between husband and wife, it will be difficult to maintain, and the subsequent marriage will be like what some people call "living together", "shared housing" and "widowed marriage"...
Husband and wife should share both wealth and adversity.
When you are sad and down, the other person can be your confidant, comfort you, regain your confidence, and help you get back on your feet.
When you are prosperous and contented, the other party can remind you and wake you up. Keep you from drowning in the joy of success.
Husband and wife should be both lovers and confidants.
Being a lover can make the relationship between husband and wife always fresh and not easy to deteriorate.
Being a confidant can increase trust between husband and wife and enhance the relationship between husband and wife.
Therefore, the role of love in married life is very critical.
