In fact, most breakup situations can be redeemed, but many people fail to seize the opportunity to recover, or adopt the wrong recovery method, and the results are naturally unsatisfactory. Below I will share with you the methods to save love. If you want to save love, it is still not too late.
1. Change the mode of getting along and communicating
Since your current love is on the verge of breaking up, it means that there is a problem with your previous mode of getting along, which definitely needs to be changed. For example, girls are emotional while boys are rational. If everyone doesn't put themselves in another person's shoes, relationships will become hot and problematic.
For example, if your girlfriend complains to you about something that happened at work, she usually doesn’t want you to help her come up with a solution, but she hopes that you can sympathize with her feelings and make her feel After she was understood and accompanied, she could come up with a solution on her own after her emotions recovered. So understanding her is the first priority. Even if she needs your help to solve the problem in the end, that will be a thing later.
2. Don’t argue about right or wrong
It is impossible to be reasonable in relationships. If you try to Use reasonable methods to persuade the other party, and the result may be that you win the argument but lose the relationship. This is why many boys feel that there is nothing wrong with being reasonable. They only feel aggrieved after being broken up, and they are unwilling to argue with the other person about right and wrong, trying to persuade the other person to change their mind.
What? Do you want the other person to admit that they have done something wrong and then cry and hold you while saying sorry? Reasoning when the other person says they want to break up? With all due respect, my friend, you are really destined to live alone. When the other party has said the word breakup, whether it is a real breakup or a fake breakup, what you have to do at this time is definitely not to argue with the other party about who is right and who is wrong! Be soft first, who is right and who is wrong is actually not that important.
3. Give the other party full trust
In love, trust is a very important factor. Many people break up because they don't have enough trust or are too sensitive. In the end, the other party always doesn't trust them, likes to make excuses, and always starts to question the little things. As time goes by, no matter how good the relationship is, it will fade away.
Therefore, you must give the other person full confidence. Since you love her, you must fully believe that she loves you too. Only in this way can you save your relationship.
4. Active communication
Communication is very important in love. The reason why many people break up is also because of the Cold War. From not talking at the beginning, to having less and less to say later. Communication is gone, and love is gone.
Then at this time, we should be the proactive ones. Opportunities are always taken by ourselves. Being passive will only miss everything. Therefore, we advocate active communication and firmly grasp the initiative in everything that follows. Really notPrice drop! On the contrary, the price will be higher. If you don’t believe me, try it.
5. Do not delete your contact information
As long as the other party does not take the initiative to delete you, then no matter how much trouble you have, it is best not to delete your contact information. If you delete and block the other person's contact information when you are angry, otherwise you will not be able to contact the other person when you regret it and want to get back together, and you will have to add the other person back again in despair...it may not be successful, but you I was dumbfounded.
Not deleting your contact information can also prevent the other party from blocking or deleting you to a certain extent, laying the groundwork for your reconciliation. Base.
