Due to the disagreement between husband and wife on the issue of divorce, one party wants to divorce, but the other party is reluctant to divorce. What will be the consequences of this situation? Is it really useful to waste time and not divorce?
The consequences of not getting divorced
1. According to the law, divorce can be declared after two years of separation due to emotional discord, so It doesn't make much sense not to get divorced.
2. Cohabitation with others can also be used as a basis for divorce. As long as the other party wants a divorce, it is impossible for them to stay apart.
3. Disappear as soon as the divorce occurs. This will not lead to a divorce. As long as the other party files a lawsuit, the divorce can be obtained.
4. Failure to divorce may cause the other party to feel resentful, which may lead to some violent incidents.
5. As long as the other party has the idea of ????divorce, the other party has complete control over the initiative. Only love can soothe the other party's psychology, but it is obviously difficult to do so at this time.
6. If you insist on not getting divorced, the other party may have an affair behind your back (or even in front of you), bringing shame to the family.
7. If you don’t want to get divorced, the couple is just a formality and a superficial status. It will definitely not be easy to live like this.
Being separated is more terrifying than divorce
The husband and wife share the same bed and have different dreams, each thinking about their own little ninety-nine. It is a great harm to marriage and the family. It may be for the sake of children, face, and family honor... but the real harm is to oneself.
If you don’t get divorced, you will definitely have a lot of quarrels in your life. The family will be full of disappointment, sadness and quarrels, without warmth and hope. Such a marriage will be torture for the entire family.
Sometimes, for some reason, Hua refuses to divorce, but the actual marriage is like a pool of stagnant water, like a zombie, full of Emptiness and loneliness can easily lead to mental illness.
In order to avoid divorce, people will lose themselves and be imprisoned in the cage of marriage, which will gradually make people paralyzed and lifeless.
The excuse is not to divorce for the sake of the children, but inadvertently it has already caused countless harm to the children, and this kind of harm to the mentally immature children is likely to last a lifetime.
