For some men who lack dating experience, it is very easy to have a cold start during the date. If it is awkward to get along with a girl on the first date, then it is very likely that there will be no chance for the next date. Because the feeling you bring to girls during a date is [boring], so men must learn how to deal with cold moments in dates!
The first one: Prepare third-party topics
What is a third-party topic? It is a topic that has nothing to do with myself and has nothing to do with girls, such as current social events, variety shows, celebrity emotional issues, or cosmetics that girls like. , clothing and other trivial things, then I can have topics to talk to when chatting with girls
Of course, we only need a simple understanding, no need to go into depth, otherwise if you are more mature than a woman You also need to know about cosmetics and bags, which will make people feel very strange
Prepare some basic conversation topics in advance, so that when you go on a formal date, the girl will not feel that you are stupid, boring, and a useless person. It's quite interesting to get along with a straight man who can get along well with you.
Second: Our own embarrassing things
We can prepare some embarrassing things from our childhood in advance, so that when Talking about these things on a date can not only make the girl laugh and adjust the atmosphere of the date, but also because we are children, no matter what kind of stupid things it is, it will not affect our current image
< p> Girls who date us hope to be entertained, and hope to get happiness from chatting with us. Instead of you pretending to be awesome here, talking about your company, work, and bragging about how awesome you are, these girls don't care. She would rather hear some fun and interesting things.Providing the above two points actually guarantees a certain degree of interaction and conversation during our dates.
Third: Dating interaction
Whether we are having dinner with a girl, watching a movie or having afternoon tea, Either there is no chance to talk, or we need to talk all the time. In both cases, it is easy to become silent. Because you only need to take care of each other. If you don't talk, then the relationship between you will actually be very boring. If you make an appointment to have afternoon tea together, and the two of you face each other and don't talk, you can only drink water all the time.
In terms of dating, we have some better options. Today we will focus on the video game city as a date location.
It is actually very difficult to be cold on a date in a video game city, because You'll be playing something all the time, which ensures that you both always have something to do and have great interactions.
In the video game cityThere are many games to play, the most popular of which is the claw machine.
If you can catch a doll and give it to a girl, it will be the icing on the cake. If you are not caught, don't keep complaining with any negative emotions. More importantly, we need to mobilize the girls' emotions in this process and let them participate and have fun. This is the most important thing.
During this process, we must interact with the girls, and we can say some joking words, such as: I know this doll. Look, I will catch it in a moment. Even if you are not arrested, girls will not look down on you, but will be happy when they see you being embarrassed.
At the same time, we can say: XX (girl’s name), in this way, I will control this joystick, you press this button, and our cooperation will be perfect.
Or, pointing to a certain doll and saying, "How about we catch that one? I think that doll looks like yours. Look at that little bear, it's quite cute."
Through simple teasing, girls can feel involved, and in the process, it is inevitable that we will have some physical contact with girls, and everyone will understand it tacitly.
However, no matter how well-prepared we are and how exciting the date is, silence is inevitable. But that doesn’t mean that silence is harmful. In fact, we spend most of the time with our families without talking, but we feel very comfortable. This is why.
An appropriate silence is helpful to cultivate a sense of comfort between us and girls. When two people are not talking and playing with their mobile phones, we can occasionally pay attention to the girl, such as asking her what she is playing, or Help her flip her hair and arrange her clothes to let the girl feel that you are not just doing your own thing and ignoring her, but letting her do her own thing.
Let the girl feel that you are always by her side and have not been left out.
It is inevitable for two people to have an awkward moment together, so don’t try to change it.
Because the best way to get along is when you don’t speak and I don’t speak, but we can both feel each other’s presence.
