Although boys pay for most dates, relationships can only last if there is back-and-forth. So if a girl never pays for dates, is there no need to contact her?
1. First of all, I think it is normal for a girl to date and a boy to pay for dinner and a movie. But no needle is sharp at both ends. If a girl really likes you, she will think about you: save you money or she will also think of some of it. My girlfriend is like this. When we go out on a date, she will make plans in advance to save money. Or she will treat me to dinner and she will treat me to a movie. There is back and forth between the two parties, and I respect her very much.
2. If it's your first date with a girl, it's okay for a boy to pay for it, but if the same girl never pays for her on multiple dates, in this case I might consider not having any further contact. For those girls who believe in "If you like me, you should treat me to food and drinks", such girls are either scheming girls or stupid. I don't think they are worthy of deep friendship.
3. I'm a girl, and when I'm on a date with a boy, he pays the bill. I really can't say anything polite or act like he's rushing to pay... So if the boy pays for a date or something, I'll occasionally say, "I'll take you to eat something." Whatever is delicious, I will pay for this kind of invitation, the frequency is about once a month or two. Then interactive gifts and so on are pretty much the same. I think girls have to pay sometimes so that they can feel confident in a relationship.
4. Nowadays, men and women are no longer equal. It doesn't matter if we men have to bear more of these. We are only afraid of those women who are free of charge, and girls who never pay for dates. It seems that your life has nothing to do with her, and she will only wait for you to pay. Such a woman breaks up decisively and is very selfish and egotistical. Men can buy a house or a car for 64 cents on daily expenses, or 73 cents on daily expenses. You have to hide as far away as possible if you don't have money, that's not life.
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I know a girl who agreed to a boy who has been chasing her for three years and now they have been together for more than a year. All kinds of clothes, bags and skin care products were bought with the boy's money. But she doesn't like this boy at all. I look down on a woman who always spends money on men, let alone if she doesn't like the man who spends money on her. But it is true that this is also an ability for women. I prefer financial independence. (Seems like I'm off topic) I'm a girl.
6. If nothing else, girls who never pay for dates usually show that when they contribute money and effort, they will think about what you should be like as a man, and when they enjoy or benefit, they will raise the banner of equality between men and women. In short, Such a woman should be more self-centered. In my opinion, girls with good tutoring will not let you spend money all the time, or at least they will pay a few token payments less.
7. From a boy's perspective or in the early stages of pursuit, I won't let girls spend money. Unless the girl invites you. However, I will especially respect a girl if she takes the initiative to take out her wallet. Boys take the big head, and girls take the small head. This is the way my girlfriend and I get along.
Therefore, for a girl who never pays for a date, if it is still acceptable in the early stages of dating, but it is still the same after many dates, then you have to be cautious. Are you willing to spend your whole life with a girl who is not willing to give you anything at all? Even if you are willing during the relationship, you will be tempered and lose your feelings later.