When you are in love, a girl may suddenly say "so tired" to you, and this tiredness is not because she is no longer in love, but a signal that she does not want to invest in the relationship anymore, because she feels that she is not in this relationship. The investment in the relationship does not get corresponding returns, so they feel tired. In that relationship, girls feel tired, what should boys do?
1. Communication
When the love period has passed and the novelty wears off, and a girl discovers that love is not what she imagined, she will easily feel tired and want to give up. In this relationship, if you still can't understand her at this time, it will easily lead to a breakup.
So at this time, you should have a good communication with her. Don’t hold anything back in your heart and tell each other frankly. Reflect more on the issue of losing your virginity, think more about what she has paid for you, and don't fall into a cold war because of conflicts.
2. Spend more time together
Girls sometimes feel tired, not only because they are busy at work and under great pressure, but also because they may It's also because you spend too little time with her. Therefore, if you have been alienated from her because you are busy with your career, you must make time to spend time with her.
3. Do something to make her happy
When a girl feels tired in a relationship, if she doesn’t know how to speak, she might as well do something to make her happy. For example, cook a delicious meal, buy her a gift that she likes, and tell her that you will always love her no matter what happens.
4. Treat her well in a way that she is willing to accept
Don’t restrict her freedom. Don't limit her life either. Don't let her stay with you just to satisfy your selfish "feelings of love", because this is not a way to be nice to her that the other person likes or even hates.
5. Understand each other
If a girl says she is tired and doesn’t want to continue. You must not get angry with the other person or accuse the other person, as this will only push her further away. If a girl complains, listen silently and share her joys and sorrows.
When a girl says this, she hopes that you will see her dedication, understand her more, and care more about her. If you turn around and leave, the girl will definitely leave you without looking back. If you patiently accompany her and encourage her to vent her negative emotions, I believe she will get better soon.
It is normal for a relationship to enter a period of burnout, and boys must learn how to deal with it correctly. If two people can get through this period, their relationship will definitely go further. Another thing to note in life is that no matter what you promise, you must work hard to do it. The result is notNot the most important thing.
If a girl thinks you are a person who can only talk but not act, then she will no longer have hope in you and will leave you sooner or later.
