If you want to successfully ask a girl out, you need a step-by-step process. Unless the girl likes you and takes the initiative, if you make the slightest mistake, the girl will easily be rejected.
When boys are rejected for a date, they usually make wild guesses - Do they still have a chance? In fact, as long as the girl doesn't completely ignore you, it means that there are still possibilities for you, but there are many Guys are not prepared enough when asking out girls.
Reasons for girls rejecting your date
1. The girl and you are just familiar with each other, but she is interested in you Not much, or you're not attractive enough on another level. [Your Attraction]
2. Girls are interested in you, but you are not familiar enough and trust each other, so girls will feel insecure. [Your relationship with girls]
3. Your dates are too boring or inappropriate. For example, you ask a girl to go swimming in the winter; or a girl is very introverted and you ask her to go to a bar; a girl hates eating stinky tofu, so you ask her to eat stinky tofu... [The value of dating]
Combining the above Think about the real reason why a girl refuses you to date based on the situation. But in fact, the girl refuses you to date. It may also be because she is really busy, in a bad mood, etc.
In short, you need to clarify the real reason why a girl rejects your date, and then make adjustments!
Preparations for dating a girl
1. Do you leave enough time for the girl before the date? For example, you want to ask the girl to go shopping now on a whim, but the girl did not wash her hair or change her hair today. Clothes, no makeup... Then there is a high probability that she will decline your date.
2. Are you fully prepared for this date? For example, if you go out to dinner with a girl, what does the girl like to eat? What does she not like to eat? Where to eat? Have you prepared?< /p>
3. Is your current situation with the girl suitable for dating? For example, if you have only met the girl two or three times and haven’t had much chat yet, and you want to date the girl, you will be easily rejected.
When you propose to date a girl, she already knows that you have a crush on her, which exposes your sense of need. Therefore, in this case, what you will think about afterward is Everything she says and does will be overly scrutinized by her, so when you are unsure, try to use a vague invitation.
What to do if you are rejected on a date
Don’t be too straight when getting along with girls - I like you so much, Why don't you like me?
I've asked you out so many times, why do you find various reasons to refuse every time?
What do you mean? I like you, can’t you see? What do you want, a green tea bitch like you, to hang on to me all the time?
The above are all wrong ways to respond. If a girl refuses your date, then find a reason for her. This is also to find a step for yourself. For example: It is indeed too cold recently; you have been so tired recently and you should take a good rest...
When you ask a girl out, you have to think from her perspective, instead of asking her to agree to your date. Thinking more from the girl's point of view will make her feel that it is easy to get along with you.
After being rejected by a girl for a date, first treat it coldly - just like a normal friend, care occasionally, and then use the above skills to promote the date.
