Life is different for everyone. The same is true for marriage. Some people get married in a loving and respectful relationship. Some people feel like they are living together as a couple when they get married. For some people, getting married is like suffering and they simply cannot survive.
For example, it is easy for you to regard a beautiful woman as a girl, but it is difficult for you to show due respect and care to a seductive and coquettish dinosaur girl. Marriage is the same for couples. A marriage that cannot survive is always troublesome!
Understand each other
Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant
or rude.
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous, love is not boastful, it is not arrogant, it does not do shy things.
It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;
It does not seek its own interests, is not easily angered, and does not take into account the wrongs of others,
It does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth.
It does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth.
It bears all things, believes all things. Hopes all things, endures all things.
Tolerate all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things.
Love never ends.
Love never ends.
——"The Bible·1 Corinthians"
When many couples get married, people who have been there will say, "You must understand and cherish each other...". If you want to This is indeed the case in living a good marriage. Marriage is not easy, but you have to do it and cherish it. As long as your bottom line is not violated, you can understand each other.
Communicate
If your marriage cannot survive, think carefully about what caused it. Are you simply tired of marriage? Or is there another reason?
If you have your own ideas, find a time for the couple to seriously talk about marriage issues and solve the current problems properly.
Problems will occur more or less in a marriage. It depends on how the couple faces them. They should not divorce when they see others getting divorced.As long as two people can still communicate, everything can start over.
Only by communicating and solving problems can we grow old together.
Divorce
Sometimes, a marriage cannot survive because of some special circumstances, such as: family Violence, your partner who has worked hard to support the family only spends money, and a disharmonious sex life...
If the conflict is really irresolvable and cannot be avoided, then divorce should be adopted. After all, people marry to pursue happiness, not to suffer.