The novelty in a relationship will gradually fade over time. Not only couples, but even men and women in the ambiguous period will also have such a headache. When the relationship has faded, how can we get back the original freshness?
1. Sense of ritual
In fact, the so-called sense of ritual is to find some meaning to a meaningless life. If there is no meaning, I still want to give it meaning. Of course, I don’t advocate such consumerism, but we can create something meaningful in our ordinary life.
For example, you can make an appointment to pick her up every Friday and have a big meal together; for example, you can set a date every month for the two of you to do general cleaning together.
2. Little surprise
Of course, you don’t have to give her a bouquet of flowers every day. We can start from the little things around us.
If your partner always complains that you work overtime and don’t accompany her, then you can find a day to finish your work early, go home from get off work, and prepare dinner at home to wait for her.
When your behavior exceeds her expectations and is beautiful, she will be very easily moved by you. It is recommended that everyone express their feelings on the public screen.
3. Self-improvement
When you are in love, the most easily forgotten thing is that everyone It will cause aesthetic fatigue. If you are always the same, she will think you are boring.
So we can learn new things to enrich ourselves, such as fitness, language learning, dance...
In terms of appearance, we can also try more styles that are different from the usual ones. clothes, hairstyle, and learn to change yourself.
4. Mystery
The more mysterious you are, the more people want to explore, so when you are in front of her, you must not show your 365-degree blind spots. Tell her everything.
For example, if you ask a friend to go mountain climbing, don’t tell the girl directly, “Tomorrow, xxx and I will go out on xxx and go to xxx to climb xxx mountain...”
You put your If your life is completely exposed, will girls still have the desire to explore?
But if you say "I want to go out with friends tomorrow", she will think "Who is he going out with? It can't be a girl." "Where can they go? What are they going to do?"
You don't need to say more. She has made up many scenes in her own mind, and the sense of crisis comes immediately.
5. Sense of distance
We all know that distance creates beauty, and a little separation is better than a new marriage. In love, , we need to have our own lives and maintain a certain distance.
You and your friends on the weekendShe went shopping with her friends to avoid being together every day.
But friends, I want to remind you that the ultimate skill of distance sense is indeed very good, but if the cooldown CD is long, it may lead to a separation than a divorce. In fact, I have always agreed with this sentence, "The sense of novelty is not to experience the same thing with various people, but to experience various things with the same person."
We have no choice. To maintain the passion we had when we first got together, but we can explore new excitement together.
Not all love is vigorous. When the passion subsides, it will become dull. If you can't survive this dull life, you will only be trapped in an endless cycle of novelty forever.
