Fighting is an inevitable problem that couples will encounter, but how to quickly let go of friends and re-establish a harmonious relationship is a process that requires skill and patience. Here are some methods that I hope will help you.
1. Calm down
After a quarrel, both parties may be angry or sad. The most important thing at this time is to calm down and don't let your emotions control your behavior. Find a quiet place, take a few deep breaths, and calm yourself down.
After you calm down, you can try to recall the reasons and triggers of the quarrel. This helps you better understand the other person's perspective and find ways to solve the problem.
2. Apologize proactively
No matter what the reason for the quarrel is, as a boyfriend, it is very important to apologize proactively. Even if you feel you are not at fault, you should apologize to your girlfriend first. Doing this can relieve tension and show that you are willing to compromise for the sake of harmony in the relationship.
When apologizing, express your apology sincerely, don't just say "I'm sorry." You can explain your mistake in detail and promise to correct it in the future. This will make your girlfriend feel your sincerity.
3. Listen to each other
Quarrels often occur because the two parties have different opinions or needs. After calming down, take the initiative to listen to your girlfriend's thoughts and feelings. Give her enough time and space to express her emotions and thoughts.
Be patient and understanding while she talks. Don't interrupt her or try to argue or explain. Just listen carefully and let her feel supported and cared about.
4. Find common ground
After a quarrel, the two parties may fall into a state of opposition. In order to reconnect, it's important to find common ground. Reminisce about the good times you had together and find things you like about each other or common interests.
By sharing these commonalities, you can increase the closeness between you and help you quickly let go of the quarrel. It is also a process of reconnecting and repairing relationships.
5. Propose a solution
After a quarrel, find a solution to the problem as soon as possible. Discuss it with your girlfriend to find a mutually acceptable solution.
When proposing solutions, consider the other person’s feelings and needs and be willing to compromise. By working together to solve problems, you can build trust and understanding between you.
6. Give time and space
Sometimes, after a fight, you need some time to calm down, think and reflect. Give each other some time and space so that both parties have a chance to calm down and thinkExamine your own behavior and attitude.
During this time, some personal reflection and growth can occur. Think about your shortcomings in the argument and think of ways to improve. When you meet again, you can handle the problem better and avoid similar arguments.
7. Rebuilding trust
Fighting can destroy trust. To re-establish trust, you need to demonstrate your sincerity through actions.
Be consistent with your words and deeds, keep your promises, and try to avoid similar quarrels from happening again. Through positive actions and a sincere attitude, trust between each other can be gradually rebuilt and feelings deepened.
To let go quickly after an argument requires calm thinking, proactive apology, listening to the other party, finding common ground, proposing solutions, giving time and space, and rebuilding trust. Only if both parties are willing to put in the effort can a harmonious relationship be re-established.
