How to maintain a long-term relationship? This is the core question that many students come to consult, but we also know that there are many ways to maintain a long-term relationship, but! No matter which method you choose, you should first learn to be in the relationship Brake, because everything depends on propriety and scale. If you are always rushing, your energy will eventually be exhausted. Braking is just a process of buffering and restarting, which can protect your love from overturning. The specific operations are as follows:
1. When chatting, don’t pester the other party if they are not active. Quietness is also an atmosphere.
2. Even if you have a great time chatting online, take the initiative to end the topic after replying 7 or 8 sentences. Don’t keep chatting. I will always miss you until I have finished my thoughts.
3. If the other person is not interested in chatting when you meet, don’t chatter endlessly. Being with him quietly is also a comfort.
4. When you come back from your sweet trip, stop clinging to each other and give each other space to be alone. (Give appropriate space and let thoughts ferment)
5. If your girlfriend has something she wants to do, don’t interfere forcefully. Support is the most important thing.
6. When you feel that your situation is not right, don’t rush forward, but retreat.
7. If you don’t answer the phone once, don’t call her a second time and wait patiently for her to reply to you.
8. Don’t ask further questions about topics the other party doesn’t want to touch on. Respect boundaries.
9. If the relationship fades, don’t rush to do something, but quietly be yourself and wait for her Try to promote feelings when I come to you independently.
10. Relationships heat up gradually. Don’t stick together every day from the beginning, as this will speed up the end of the relationship. It is generally recommended to meet once a week in the first month, twice a week in the second month, three times a week in the third month, and no more than 4 times a week before marriage.
11. Hold back the most unpleasant words when quarreling, and you will get more.
Respect yourself and your partner. Give each other appropriate space. When feelings are not right, adjust your own state first. Many times, there is no big problem in the relationship between two people, but their own mentality collapses, which ultimately leads to the bad result. In fact, the steering wheel of happiness is in your hands. If you know how to slow down, accelerate slowly and brake, your love will lead to happiness and sweetness!
