Feelings are mutual. A long-term relationship requires both parties to spend time and energy to maintain it. So what is the best way to maintain a relationship?
What is the best way to maintain a relationship?
1. Being honest with each other
Being honest with each other does not mean that there is no personal privacy between husband and wife. Frankness means that when two people encounter something, they should not hide it from each other, express their thoughts and opinions, and seek the other party's opinion, rather than concealing and refusing to communicate because the matter involves someone who has a relationship with the other party. Many conflicts arise when you know something that the other party doesn't want you to know, and you think the other party is deceiving you. How you handle things, your attitude towards your family, and your views on life must be spoken out rather than kept in your heart. It is important for both parties to be honest about their hearts.
2. Don’t put negative pressure on the other person
We are all independent individuals, so when we encounter problems, we should solve them by ourselves instead of blindly relying on each other and trying to be the other person’s path in life. A good partner should not be a burden to the other person and should have the ability to face difficulties independently, so that love will not be so tiring.
3. Don’t be too accommodating to the other party
In a relationship, never be too accommodating to the other party, because you must be accommodating. If you do too much, you will become a coward. Not only will others not think you are great, but they will only think you are easy to bully. You give the other person whatever he wants, and you forgive him for any mistakes he makes. Gradually, you cultivate the other person into a parasite, a parasite that only knows how to drink your blood and eat your flesh. Are you in pain? Of course you are in pain, but all of this is caused by yourself. Because you have no bottom line, you allow the other party to take advantage of you. Generosity is a good quality, and it is beautiful because it is supported by a bottom line. Once you lose the bottom line, you are destined to be wronged and you deserve to be wronged. After all, you have spoiled the other person.
4. Tolerate each other
Everyone knows that we should tolerate each other’s tempers and understand each other as a family A lot of effort, but who can really do it? You still know how to be tolerant when you are in love, but why do you no longer have any thoughts of being tolerant after you get married? Or is it this way? It’s because you are married. Everyone lacks this heart, so they become more and more temperamental. Regardless of men or women, they become more and more intolerable, resulting in conflicts and quarrels.
