Many people like to laugh at themselves for being social animals, and recently it has become popular to call themselves "workers." This shows that in real life, most netizens are not the world-traveling bloggers on Weibo, nor are they the millionaires per capita on Zhihu Winner is more of a working person in the workplace.
Many of them are still single. Although they have a slight affection for the female colleagues around them, they don’t know how to further develop the relationship, such as how to ask a female colleague out on the weekend...
1. Determine whether a female colleague is single
Before asking a female colleague out for the weekend, first determine whether she is single. If she is already Having a boyfriend or husband can cause a lot of trouble or embarrassment, and even affect the relationship between you and your colleagues.
If you are friends with a female colleague, then try to look for clues about whether the female colleague has a significant other on her social media.
On some social media platforms, such as Moments, you can browse recent photos of female colleagues to see if there are any photos of female colleagues holding hands or hugging other people, which may indicate the relationship between them.
If you have a trustworthy friend at work, you can ask him or her about a female colleague you are interested in. Ask your friend to keep the secret secret for you. You can say something like: "I want to ask someone out on a date. Do you know if she is single?"
If these methods don't work, you can even ask the person directly. A female colleague. Be wary of temptation and bring it up in conversation.
2. Details you need to pay attention to when dating a female colleague
The wrong date, time, and reason are all It may cause the invitation to fail or cause uneasiness to female colleagues. Avoid these unexpected possibilities.
Try to ask your female colleague on a date when you are alone with her. If you ask for a date if there are other coworkers around, you may make your female coworker feel uncomfortable or feel pressured to say “go” or “no.”
Choose a comfortable space where you and your female colleagues can feel safe. For example, don't ask a female coworker out directly outside a restroom or in your office, as these places can be intimidating or even completely inappropriate to hang out with.
When proposing a date, make sure your female colleague is not rushing to do other important things, because you will want her to pay full attention when you ask and not to perfunctory your date.
3. How to invite female colleagues
Many people, before taking the actual action (asking female colleagues out), You may feel some nerves.
In fact, you have nothing to lose in the end. The worst thing you can do is to be rejected by the other person. In this case, you just have to smile and ask the other person to forgive you politely.
The most difficult thing about asking a female colleague to hang out with you on the weekend is how to say it. As soon as you ask the female colleague to choose to agree to your date or choose to reject your date, the chance of failure is relatively high.
Be polite and enthusiastic when you ask. Don't be pushy or pushy, or be too standoffish.
Make small talk for a few minutes first so you don’t look like you’re in a hurry to ask them out. Ask your coworkers how they’re doing, how their weekend was, or how their day was.
Smoothly transition to the topic of asking the other person out. You can say something like: "Hey, I really enjoyed chatting with you. If you are free this weekend, I would like to meet you for a cup of coffee and chat."
If your female colleague agrees, Then say, "Great! When would be a better time for you?" If your coworker says "no," be polite and gracious, but don't stick around or make things awkward.
