I finally asked the girl I liked out for dinner, but after meeting, I was dumbfounded and found that the girl actually brought my best friend with me. It makes the dating atmosphere extremely awkward. What should you do in this situation?
1. Unite the front with your female best friends
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If a girl notifies you in advance that she will bring her best friend for a date later, then you have to express your position in advance and tell her that it is no problem and I will entertain you and your best friend.
Don’t let a girl and her girlfriends think you are stingy and leave an impression of being unreliable.
Also, whether you know it in advance or not, after meeting, it is necessary to interact with girls.
But don’t forget to also interact with her besties. It’s best to interact with two people at the same time, so as not to make the other person feel embarrassed because you neglected one of them.
For example, you originally wanted to ask a girl, "Do you usually like to eat crayfish?"
When her best friend is present, you can ask her best friend, "Does she usually like to eat crayfish?" Do you really like eating crayfish?"
If my best friend replies: "Yes, yes, she is very pretentious, she loves to eat, but she doesn't like to peel it herself."
What's the subtext? She needs to find someone to pick the shrimps for her.
Pay more attention at the dinner table and randomly create topics based on the current situation.
For example, if a girl doesn’t eat vegetables, you would half-jokingly say to her bestie:
“She doesn’t usually eat vegetables, she’s just like a child. "
If her best friend replies, "Yes, she doesn't listen no matter how many times we tell her, someone really needs to take care of her."
The subtext of this sentence is: I am very optimistic about you, brother.
2. Increase uniqueness with girls
Invisibly create some uniqueness with girls Sex, let the girl’s best friend see it.
You can have both girls take care of things like pulling up chairs and handing over dishes and chopsticks. After all, you have to be a gentleman.
But for some more intimate behaviors, you must not do both, such as picking up food, wiping mouths, etc.
More uniqueness can also be reflected in the understanding and tacit understanding between boys and girls. For example, when chatting, he said to his best friend: "We both like to add ice when drinking coffee. Do you want to try it?" Give it a try”.
But what needs to be noted here is that you can’t go too far, otherwise a series of flirting routines will leave the other party with the feeling that you are very sophisticated and expert.
3. Create the next date opportunity
If you succeed in the above two points, the impression score of your female best friends will definitely rise in a straight line. At this time, you can take advantage of the trend to create the next date opportunity.
Wait for an opportunity when only you and your best friend are left. For example, if the girl goes out to answer the phone and the girl goes to the bathroom, you seize the time and say to her best friend:
"Today is really... Thank you, otherwise I might really mess it up, because I am really nervous. Fortunately, you have helped me so much. I will treat you to dinner next time. Next time, you can book a place. We can go wherever you like. What to eat."
Don't just date girls alone. Since a girl can bring this best friend out on the first date, it also shows the importance of her best friend in her heart.
If you can deal with a girl’s “parental family”, there will be more opportunities for two people in the future.
If you feel a lot of pressure, you can also find foreign aid to cooperate and call your good buddies to join you. If your good buddies are also good, you can also show your social value.
