If you want to heat up your relationship with a girl, the most important thing is to go on a date. However, most boys either can't date each other, or after finally dating each other once, they don't give girls a good dating experience, and they can't date them the second time. So how do you go on a date with the girl you like so that your relationship can quickly heat up?
1. Invitation method< /h2>
Don’t overemphasize the ritual of the first date.
In other words, don’t let her worry about “does dating you mean that you are boyfriend and girlfriend?”
That will only put too much pressure on her, and she will be forced to refuse your invitation. And the relationship between the two people will be more awkward later, and finally nothing will happen.
The more recommended invitation method here is to invite without requirements. That is:
You have something that you are about to do, and you must do it. You want the other person to join, but you have to go even if they don't.
This can minimize the pressure on the other party.
Don’t show that you are “asking her out just to date her”, let the other party feel that your invitation is a very casual thing.
For example:
"I heard that the crayfish at a restaurant is particularly delicious, and I had to queue for a long time. Make a reservation. If you have no other plans, we can come together on the weekend."
Unless a girl is really busy, she will probably not refuse.
Summary of some methods to improve the success rate of invitations:
1. Inviting 2 to 3 days in advance will not appear abrupt and avoid her having other arrangements;
2. The cost of refusing to go to an appointment can be appropriately increased, such as "It is difficult to book a restaurant";
3. The success rate of making an appointment during the day is higher, and the date atmosphere at night is better, so you can choose by yourself;
4. Don’t show too much excitement when the other party agrees to go on a date. On the contrary, don’t be upset...
2. Date content
Although it seems routine to have a dinner date, It's so simple and easy to use. Almost no girl will refuse delicious food.
Moreover, in the early stages of dating, dating does not need to be so fancy.
When dating, "eating" is not the focus, but "chatting" to deepen understanding of each other is the focus.
Instead of worrying about “what to eat”, it is better to think about “how to eat”. The same goes for other dating programs.
For example, we all know that sitting side by side during a dinner date is more conducive to shortening the distance than facing each other.
It is convenient for bothPersonally, we "whisper" and when we are in a good mood, we can also take photos together.
But sitting side by side as soon as you get up can easily break the safe distance between people.
So when examining the dating environment, you can focus on a couch that can accommodate two people sitting side by side, or a place where chairs can be easily moved.
When dating, you can sit face to face first, and when you talk about interesting things, sit on the same side as her naturally.
Some criteria for judging good dating content:
1. A good date can allow each other to communicate, and theaters and libraries are average;
2. Choosing a date in a daily life scene such as a large supermarket or a small park will work wonders;
3. Prepare at least one transition location for the date, which will bring a sense of surprise to girls;
4 , don’t expect the relationship to progress rapidly after just one date, at least 3 to 5 times...
